Resourceful?

So you think I’m good at this, you know talking about XXY, Klinefelter’s syndrome, and sex in general?

Do I NEED your support, sorry no. I have learned to live life alone, I don’t NEED anybody!

It’s probably a bad thing being self reliant, resourceful, talented, intelligent, need I go on?

If someone gets an honour from the Queen of England does it come before that persons professional title or after? Like Dame Margret Sparrow, is she Dame Dr, or Dr Dame?

More than just I am confused about that. If you’re a Sir, your wife if she’s female automatically becomes a Dame. But if you’re a Dame, like my aunt Dame Dorothy Fraser, her husband didn’t automatically become a Sir, is that weird or what?

Anyway I met Dame Dr Margret Sparrow at the old Wainuiomata College in the mid 1970’s. She was giving a talk on SEX, Sex Education precisely. Of course I thought I knew it all, I had an O Level in Human Biology, of course I knew it all, and I was young enough to say so! 🙂 The only thing I can remember of the talk was going into the School Hall, parents were separated form their offspring so that when the ‘group discussions’ started family members were not together.

A talk about sex and that’s all I can remember! That must have been 1975. It’s amazing how thoughts get concentrated by certain events at a certain time of life. 1975 was a nothing. Life began for real in 1976:

My Karyotype

I’m not the only XXY man who’s met Dr Dame Margret Sparrow. Both these two have met her too:

Michael Noble  & David Strachan XXY

And if you click on the this link you’ll be taken to the article they’re both mentioned in, or co-authored, or something? It’s all very interesting how all the same names pop up as the old groups fade away, and the new groups form. New people coming forward to espouse their curious understanding of genetics and endocrine disease are very rare.

Here is David Strachan again associated with AIC & Mani Mitchell, a few years later, just recently actually, promoting the Intersexions documentary, full of absolute drivel from the XXY men featured in it:
David Strachan & Mani Mitchell

What else besides being XXY do these two have in common, they both think they’re intersex, and they’re both homosexual. Gavan Coleman says he’s intersex too, does that get you wondering? Of course I say sexuality has nothing to do with chromosomes, or genes, or genetic influence, it’s all about choice. People who NEED to justify their CHOICES, NEED a genetic argument. They’ll have to look elsewhere, maybe it’s on an autosome, the homosexual gene?

Maybe it’s one of the genes predicted to be functioning on the inactivated X? I do say it’s outrageous to assume all XXY men have the exact same active genes functioning on the inactivated X, so why can’t this gene that causes homosexuality be on the inactivated X, or the activated X, or the Y? 😛 So is the homosexual gene for XY males on their mothers X, as we know they got their Y from their father! Do XXY men who claim they’re intersex, and are homosexual, KNOW for certain which parent provided their other X? I can’t say ‘inactivated X’ in this instance as it may be a gene on the active X, who knows?

I think I know, considering the number of boys in puberty who approached me for sex at Fernlea School, and Parkway Intermediate, and it was very enjoyable too, and later at Hendon Senior High School in London. Having sex with boys is definitely something all boys do, it’s just a part of life. Absolutely normal sexual behaviour.

You can always search the parents websites all over the internet, where ‘worried’ parents ask questions about masturbation, and seek justification for punishing their boys they caught masturbating with other boys! I wonder why they just don’t think back to their own puberty to know why boys do such things? It’s really enjoyable! Later, when girls become available, masturbating with them is really enjoyable too! As Quentin Crisp once said “Intercourse is a poor substitute for masturbation.”

From the DVD “Bad Education

Gee, I wonder if these boys were XXY too? 😛 Of course this is a fictional story, but I’m sure there must be some reason the original author included it in his film?

If you’re going to talk about me!

The previous post was going to get awfully long, so I had to make a cut off point. Michael Noble really is quite confused over the disease he’s treated successfully for. Klinefelter’s syndrome is the symptoms of that disease, and as such is not an intersex condition. Intersex is about presentation of genitalia at birth, and every baby boy has small genitals, because they’re babies. Everything else about a baby is small. If baby boys had adult size genitals there’d be a real problem, the kid would be genuinely sick!

This is the information I believed in 2000, but I continuously update my knowledge and Noble never does.

“Tucker (that’s me) (IFAS 2000) clarifies the position of the NZKA by stating that anyone
with Klinefelter Syndrome cannot be intersex, simply because only males can have Klinefelter Syndrome. He explains that:
those males born XXY, XXYY, XXXY, XXXXY and mosaic forms of these,
can go on to develop the disease Klinefelter Syndrome, but many of them
won’t. They will simply have or preferably, BE, whatever karyotype they
have (IFAS 2000, p.2).”

However I have now clarified my information even further, I now say “Klinefelter’s syndrome is the symptoms of disease, not a disease in itself.” An opinion which is derived from this 1958 report on Seminiferous Tubule Dysgenesis in male twins, the endocrine disease Dr Klinefelter et al (and others) originally described in 1942. Dr Klinefelter was correct, the symptoms he described were, and are, endocrinal in nature, and of course ONLY males can get it. It is not intersex!

Then our less than intelligent Australian XXY man Noble states:

“Consequently, it appears that a chromosomal variation has been completely transformed into an endocrinal condition that can be cured or, at the very least, concealed and thus rendered invisible, while the extra sex chromosome seems to have mysteriously disappeared!”
Representations of Klinefelter Syndrome – © 2010 Michael Noble Revised version (unpublished) page 14

Well this is the problem isn’t it Mr Noble, working what is of importance, the symptoms of disease, or the additional genetic material, and what should be first? So is the additional genetic material caused by the symptoms of disease, or are the symptoms of disease caused by the additional genetic material? And why is there such variability in individuals? Why do not all XXY men have the classic symptoms Dr Klinefelter described?

And where were these men by the way Mr Noble, they were at a hypogonadism clinic for males, run by Dr Fuller Albright. Do you think Dr Fuller Albright can tell the difference between a man and a woman Mr Noble? When was the last time you looked between your legs Mr Noble? Between my legs this is what I look like (god I’m proud)

Intersex, really, how blind are you?

Intersex, really, how blind are you?

Do I really make the additional X disappear? I’m such a clever clogs! It’s a bit complicated but I’m sure a person with a Degree in Creative Writing can follow along.

The additional X is inactivated. It’s called X inactivation. Kind of makes sense really doesn’t it! So as it’s inactivated why do XXY men invariably have fertility issues, hypogonadism issues, and educational issues? Oh and if sexual orientation is related to sex chromosomes a why aren’t all XXY men and boys homosexual, and why are some XY men and boys homosexual?

Barr Bodies

I want to you to study the Barr body of the XXY man, in that link above. I want you to compare it to the Barr body in the XX female person. I want you to notice the XXY man’s Barr body is visibly smaller than the female’s Barr body. Genetically speaking we are not like females at all, based on this evidence, we’re much more like XY males with a Barr body, which is exactly what we are, MALES with a Barr body, and forget about the larger Barr bodies of the others, they have many more than merely 2 X chromosomes.

A theory I have read suggests that the additional X is not completely inactivated, that there are genes in the body of the additional X that escape inactivation. As the Barr body represents the inactivated X a smaller Barr body suggests more genes are active on that inactivated X, why I mention the size of it. Since it is likely that not all XXY males have the same set of additional genes present, that could account for the variability of effect in individual XXY males?

Another theory I have read suggests that there is skewed X inactivation in XXY males, actually that’s no longer a theory, it’s a fact. Females have random X inactivation, and since we all are invariably infertile, this non random or skewed inactivation could be the cause of our infertility, and could also be responsible for our variability of other problems too?

Now you can bury your head in the sand for as long as you like Mr Noble, you can write as much crap as you want, you can pretend your Degree in Creative Writing affords you knowledge in matters you have no education in. You can also get off your arse and do something useful with your life too! Tall Poppies like me attract little shits like you. What else do you have to do but attempt to justify your sexual choices with wobbly genetics and accusations of religious bias?

Unbeknown to you the world of genetic research continues. What you think is true in terms of XXY research, and what is true, is a chasm apart. You just don’t know what you’re talking about. You seem to want to forget you have 44 unique autosomes, with your 3 unique sex chromosomes. Why do you presume to have the exact same genes on your inactivated X functioning, as I or any other XXY man has? We are not all the same, not genetically speaking, and we never will be.

Now go away and write something educated. You know, try hard!

Graeme Tucker
47 XXY for LIFE.

Discourse of Contradiction

I suppose the problem for XXY men really is they don’t have the facilities mentally to ask questions when they’re confused.

“The New Zealand Klinefelter Association (NZKA) was also established by the parents of sex chromosome variant children and adults born with at least one additional ‘sex’ chromosome.*”
Michael Noble – Representations of Klinefelter Syndrome (unpublished) – page 2

The NZKA was established by me and my then wife. End of story. Get facts, try hard!

[You see this here Michael, your little astrix note “* When referring to the additional chromosomes, I will refer to them as ‘sex’ chromosomes for convenience sake in order to distinguish them from other chromosomes.

Here’s some news for you, THERE ARE ONLY SEX CHROMOSOMES, all the rest are called AUTOSOMES. I can go in to detail as to why that is, but I think it will go way over your head. You need to research it for yourself. You NEED to edit your unpublished document, you make yourself look like a fool.]

I had assistance from CCS (formerly known as the Crippled Childrern’s Society), and various other professionals in the field of psychology and education, all the names of which escape me at this particular moment. Verna C. Raab, Educational Psychologist, from Canada, her best friend involved in some kind of secretarial work at Tairawheti Polytechnic, Veronica somebody? Other people too. Inland Revenue, they helped me write the Deed of Trust, the document that governed what we did and how we did it. So it had to be written as all inclusively as possible, without breaching the rules. You try doing that Michael Noble, write a thesis on it, see how far you get!

It was really hard to get people involved anyway, XXY men are generally unreliable, the parents of the boys are generally one eyed, the boys are too young. At the time we got going, we weren’t a charity, we were just a bunch of talented individuals, and there was only 1 XXY guy who was the driving force. I only know of 1 XXY guy who’s ever been a driving force, most of the rest are just groaning, moaning, lazy, miserable, little bastards!

It’s really hard work establishing a charity in New Zealand. Not that Michael Noble has ever attempted anything of the sort himself. He’s way too busy writing shit about people from his position of complete ignorance!

Helen, somebody, her son was the boy with Prader-Willi too, she was excellent help. One of the best parents of an XXY boy I’ve ever met, anywhere.

I couldn’t give a toss then, or now, what your sexuality is, what your gender is, who you fuck Michael Noble, it’s not important. You’re not important. You don’t have and never did have educational difficulty. You’re not a child missing out on an education, you never were. It’s the next generation that is important, getting them diagnosed early, they might even have sperms that can be collected and stored, if they’re found early? But you don’t give a shit about them do you, all you bullshit artists only care about yourselves, your gender expression, and your sexuality.

“Five years later, the NZKA Board changed the organisation’s name to the New Zealand Sex Chromosome Society (NZSCS) because, over the years, the Association had embraced other sex chromosome conditions such as Turners and Fragile X.”
Michael Noble – Representations of Klinefelter Syndrome (unpublished) – page 2

In reality we had to change our Deed of Trust to incorporate all the things we were doing that we were technically not allowed to do, according to law! Since we were always an information group, providing information first and foremost, not a support group, it seemed to the Board a logical step to do. Any information about Fragile X or X0 you don’t need to know, they’re not your sex and not your gender! They appreciate information. That you don’t appreciate them getting information just goes to show how selfish you are, and what I did with my time, and my money, was my business. Being questioned by some Australian git who wasn’t even a member, nor took the time to write an introduction, is hardly likely to be taken seriously.

“The Klinefelter community initially established these web pages for the purpose of distilling complex scientific literature into easily understood or popular narratives, while providing communication services for the discussion of issues relevant to the Klinefelter/XXY communities. They have achieved this, either by lobbying medical facilities and specialists into publishing popular information booklets and articles, or non-medical members have published their own articles based on their interpretation of the scientific literature.”
Michael Noble – Representations of Klinefelter Syndrome (unpublished) – page 2

We achieved something did we Michael Noble, that’s so good of you to say so. I got on TV, I did a huge amount, and EVERYTHING published on our website that was not OPINION, was vetted by John W Delahunt, Endocrinologist, or Johannes Nielsen, Researcher. It was medical data put in layman’s terms. We had a unique website. It was brilliant. There was no ‘patient or Board Member interpretation of medical literature’ it was all medical interpretation, thanks for asking!

The booklet “Understanding Klinefelter’s Syndrome – a Guide for XXY males and their families.” I’m the driving force behind the publication of that in New Zealand too. I still needed and got other people’s assistance, like Robert Bock the author, who almost made me reproduce it here. Unlike your crap there’s no copyright on it, it’s royalty free. So off you go smart arse, let’s see you do one for Australia. It will cost money and I won’t be lifting a finger to support you. Any one of you wankers out there who think you can do better are free to try. All you have to do is raise the money to pay for it, that should be a breeze as you’re so clever.

“….Rather, it is an attempt to undertake a very general socio-linguistic survey of the medical and popular discourses, in order to examine the representation of Klinefelter Syndrome/ XXY, and briefly link the discourses to issues such as the representation of sex, gender, sexuality and identity….”
Michael Noble – Representations of Klinefelter Syndrome (unpublished) – page 3

The above is the reason for Michael Noble’s paper, which is basically asserting his sexuality and the sexuality of other XXY men who claim they’re intersex, on the basis of their collective lies about their individual treatment, as if their lies were indicative of treatment over all. Michael Noble says he knows nothing of the therapy options, and it is his idea that one needs a University Degree in order to comment, attempting to shut down debate, like many of his crackpot colleagues.

His over-riding idea is that XXY is a different sex all together, and that testosterone they naturally produce is all they need. That he actually took, and probably still does take, testosterone therapy had to be worked around. In his blog he claims he ‘reduced’ his hormone therapy. The fact of the matter is he can’t assert XXY is a sex in it’s own right, and the level of testosterone produced is ‘normal’ and take ANY amount of exogenous testosterone, or he becomes a hypocrite.

Footnote on page 7 of his ‘paper’

“According to British law, physicians do not have to disclose details of medical techniques, nor the pharmacological operation of drug therapy: rather they are only required to provide information on the ‘goals and general nature of the treatment or drug’(Dickens 1982, p.238).He explains that physicians can resort to the ‘therapeutic privilege’ of non-disclosure in relation to procedures such as the administration of testosterone using intermuscular injections, in order to avoid having to account for their actions if they believe that the patient or parents may not comprehend the technical details of such therapies.”
Michael Noble – Representations of Klinefelter Syndrome (unpublished) – page 7

Michael Noble lives in Australia and I live in New Zealand, and what the British do is their business. I’ve not changed anything of his drivel, in fact here’s a screen shot, you can see they’re the same:

Noble drivel

This idiot has a University Degree by the way, but he can’t spell, even I know it’s ‘intramuscular’ but he’s so arrogant he didn’t bother getting his writings checked by a medical specialist before he released it for viewing. I can’t say ‘published’ even though for me to have a copy it must be ‘published’ but this is Michael Noble’s brain in action. Now you can also see this is an ‘updated’ version, from 2010, so if he knew so much about testicular volume and growth of XXY boys’ balls, how come he ignored this author, Ratcliffe 1999: an author he does refer to earlier in his ‘paper!’

XXY's balls

When crackpots like Michael Noble get an idea in their head, the last thing they want to do is include information that contradicts it.

I am more than happy to change what I teach as new information comes to hand. Such as I used to teach my balls were 1mL in volume at 17, and never were any bigger. However the likelihood of that being true is now zero, they must have enlarged at least a little in order for me to have that “good penile and scrotal development” and for me to have to wait for therapy, until my doctor was satisfied I had testicular failure:

asthenic_v1

Michael Noble never includes excerpts from his medical record, and never proves anything he says of himself, his therapy, his dealings with the medical profession. He just makes outrageous statements that look good to the intersex crowd.

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Traditionally Considered to be Male

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I thought this was interesting:

Masculinity

I always thought the word ‘masculinity’ pertained to adult males. I am also a parent, and my son has severe delays, and when I was told of the name of it the first thing I did was look it up, so why would a parent of an XXY boy not look up XXY?

This idea presented by Shirley Ratcliffe is pretty close to my idea as to why some XXY men want to erroneously claim they’re aladin sane2 androgynous, (Chris Somers) Androgynous hermaphrodite, (Chris Somers, Gavan Coleman)Hermaphrodite intersex, (Chris Somers, David Strachan, Gavan Coleman, Michael Noble)female even female! (Gavan Coleman)

They all report having this odd idea of their sex after they discovered they were infertile. Being XXY was not a problem at all. Being diagnosed with Klinefelter’s syndrome wasn’t an issue. Having Gynaecomastia was a challenge, since 2 of them had it removed BEFORE they were diagnosed XXY.

Gynaecomastia

Chris Somers tries to talk his way around that by claiming he was pressurised by the ‘society’ of his all boys’ school that he attended at the time, to conform his body to masculine normal.

I expect Gavan Coleman will do the same in time, it is his ‘modus operadi’ to blame others for his decisions. It’ll mean nothing to him to say ‘I really liked my tits and I really wanted to keep them, but in order to conform to masculine normal I capitulated to teasing.’

I don’t believe David Strachan ever had Gynaecomastia as mentioning it seems to have been an after thought, so he can more readily ‘fit in’ with the real Intersex people, and because in teenagers and men with Klinefelter’s syndrome it’s associated with a lack of testosterone. It CAN be a side effect of taking testosterone initially, but minor tweaking of the dose will cause it to subside. All these intersex types believe breasts are sex organs, and not disease in a males at all. There’s no way it could kill these guys! 🙂

“After 20 years of hormones, my body is
almost supermasculine (except for my
breasts). I feel like hormones have poisoned my body

Cameron 1995”
ISNA Newsletter

Of course all that poison didn’t stop him from taking it. In theory he started taking testosterone in 1975, just a wee while before me, and I don’t feel poisoned at all. So someone KNEW David Cameron (surprisingly similar name) was lying in 2002 when he claimed XXY boys were being experimented on, with the ‘poison’ testosterone, in the Fall 2002 ISNA Newsletter!

It’s a terrible thing when the charities one writes to makes their publications public knowledge, for the rest of time, that all can read. If this Cameron fellow was obese he could have developed ‘man boobs’ like any other obese man can develop. XXY men develop breast cancer much more frequently than XY men. It’s amazing this Cameron fellow was still alive after 20 years of Gynaecomastia! And the poor man just like David Iris Cameron Strachan was dissatisfied with the KS&A, as he perceived them to be a parent group, who didn’t represent homosexual men. This Cameron fellow of 1995 looks like the identical twin of David Strachan, associated with AIC today.

According to the poor Cameron fellow his doctors told him nothing about Klinefelter’s syndrome, and all the ‘men’ with it were homosexual and/or Transsexual. It must be an American thing, I have met in New Zealand 3 homosexual guys who are treated for Klinefelter’s syndrome. The 12 others never volunteered their sexuality. So what 20% were homosexual, what’s the usual rate? 🙂

Depending on the report Gynaecomastia does have a wide variability of effect, both in frequency and duration, and karyotype, XY boys in puberty get it too, and overweight XY men.

But infertility is pretty much universal!

Their masculinity was majorly challenged by being infertile, as masculinity is closely related to virility and fertility. I was quite surprised to discover that. In fact it’s a state of being male at any age where virility and fertility are assumed. If you’ve male genitals and you can’t meet the expectations of society, ‘how can I possibly be a real man,’ I’m certain that was their thinking. As blaming others for their failures is a factor in their personalities, they’d naturally be drawn to a group of people who have genuine issues with the medical profession, not made up issues many XXY men invent.

Maybe that’s how I preserved my sense of masculinity, by my understanding of the word? So that leaves hope for these emasculated in their minds souls to regain their true selves, and be the real men they were designed to be. Then of course they’d have to compete in the real world with real men, and I suspect they may be a tad bit unprepared for the contest. Far better in their minds to completely capitulate, than even attempt to try, as that requires work.

All these men are intersex as they can’t understand genetics. In at least Michael Noble’s eyes I’m a genius, I can magically make the additional X disappear, it’s all my doing. I’m a very clever man in his eyes. I know the power of genes and chromosomes are just carriers of genes, and if the genes don’t function, or do function where they’re not meant to be, problems will occur.

I think they all believe they have two complete X chromosomes fully functioning in all their cells, they believe they’re female of one kind or other. Not a lot different from being Transsexual.

Of course if Michael’s forte wasn’t Creative Writing, and was Genetics, he’d know all females born with female genitals, only have 1 X fully functioning in all their cells, just like all males do, even all XXY males! It’s just so sad all these potentially clever men have dedicated their lives to their ignorant stupidity. Imagine they all could have been great writers, or explorers, or even musicians and teachers if they’d just set their minds on education, instead of self justification!

Oh well, never mind. At least they can’t breed and pass their lack of knowledge on to anybody.

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Is No Body Shameful?

Of course there are ‘shameful’ bodies!

Anybody who insists their chromosomes dictate their sex is deluded. Do you know people with XY sex chromosomes can have female everything external, and do you know that people with XX sex chromosomes can have male everything external?

Actually the XX male persons are said to have Klinefelter’s syndrome as they have seminiferous tubule dysgenesis, and to have that disease they must have testes of course! So they’re obviously male, always were.

So where am I going…..? I get really pissed off with some of these intersex types, like most of them are so fucking lucky, they got diagnosed at birth! Then they bitch and moan about the medical care they received as if it were a bad thing!

Do you know there’s a theory out there in ‘research land’ (that’s a mythical world where people in white coats a hang out and read reams of paper literature) that says that XXY males suffer greatly from insufficient testosterone during puberty, that they’d be better off if they had no puberty at all, like males with Kallmann syndrome, effectively!

True, males with Kallmann syndrome don’t suffer they types of difficulty XXY males suffer, and it is theorised this is because males with Kallmann syndrome their testes fail to produce testosterone, thus saving their brain from psychiatric illness. XXY males on the other hand experience puberty normally, then their testosterone level markedly drops off, sometime after the onset of puberty. Nobody knows exactly when and nobody seems interested in finding out exactly when! They’re males after all, who gives a shit about males sexual & mental health?

Of course there are always exceptions to the rule.

Remember also, psychiatric illness has NOTHING to do with learning ability.

But these intersex types, their only problems are man made! Yeah they discover they’d been lied to all their lives, (that’s something for transsexual people to remember, when you lie about a matter your entire life the people you lie to get hurt!) And intersex types, they feel betrayed, depressed, anxious, angry, that can lead to psychological problems. But they’re so lucky that they had doctors who gave a shit about them, who made sure they had a NORMAL puberty, the very thing all XXY guys don’t have!

Transsexual people usually have a NORMAL puberty too! Be it the wrong sex but hey, normal all the same.

Now you’ve got to read the fine print in “The Interface Project” on YouTube, these intersex types have an introduction video, and what the people say is compelling, but the text in the video is off putting.

I know for a fact they all believe XXY guys are intersex, not that it’s any of their business of course! They wholeheartedly believe all XXY guys have Klinefelter’s syndrome, these intersex types are really good at spouting medical dogma, when it doesn’t apply to them! They want to force XXY boys to develop psychiatric disorders, because they’re receiving information from crackpots who lie about even how they a were diagnosed, about their medical care, the structure of their internal organs, anything to fit into the intersex group they will lie about.

So why do some of the XXY guys want to fit into a group they don’t belong in? Could it be that they’re all homosexual and the support groups of the 1990’s didn’t cater for them, and they had nowhere else to go? Of course, I think it’s pretty well proven sex chromosome numbers do not dictate sexuality, but these homosexual XXY guys really want it to be true for them! If XXY causes homosexuality then all XXY males MUST be homosexual, and we know for a fact that’s not true!

Should an XY female have her internal, non sperm making, testes removed, and if they are removed is that sterilisation? I do know of AIS, 46XY females who were not diagnosed until adulthood, and none have ever elected to keep their non sperm producing, testosterone producing gonads. They’re not being sterilised, they’re being assisted. So I don’t think AIS females diagnosed at birth, or in childhood are being sterilised either, they’re being assisted. They’re given what most XXY guys don’t have a NORMAL life! Now if Eden Atwood wants to have the effects of her testes back, all she need do is have testosterone supplementation, if she wants?

So getting back to XXY boys, should they be forced to have testosterone therapy? I don’t think they are forced to. It’s only the crackpot XXY guys who pretend they’re intersex who claim they are! Oh no I do know of 1 XXY man who was forced to have testosterone therapy when he was a teen by his parents, and as soon as he hit 18 he stopped the therapy, at grave risk to his health! That is exactly what doctors want to avoid, which is exactly why they INSIST it’s the XXY boy HIMSELF who decides if he wants hormone therapy. Of course stupid parents will do stupid things regardless of the best advice!

Of XXY boys in puberty this is what I have NEVER found, they don’t want erections, they don’t want sex, they don’t want to masturbate, they don’t want to ejaculate. When they realise they need testosterone to do all those things, they agree to hormone therapy. It’s only these pretend intersex crackpot XXY adults who want to claim their hormone therapy was a disaster. One famous XXY idiot maintains he was better off being sexually incapable, and wished he’d never started testosterone therapy, but only did so because he was not informed of all the consequences of that therapy. So who as an adult needs to be informed as to the effects of testosterone when as an adult he sought out therapy? Oh he also claims he might die if he stops the therapy he was ‘forced’ to take, which is utter nonsense!

Who the hell’s he trying to kid here? This sort of crap might be really well received by the intersex types, the true intersexers I mean, but it just doesn’t wash with normal bodied people. Normally testosterone is produced by the testes in males at about 50-70mgs per day, when the men are resting. Many men seem to think they wake after resting with an erection as they need to piss, but it’s pure co-incidence. Just ask yourself men, during the day, and you’re awake when you need to pee do you have an erection? Well I’m a man and I don’t, but I do have morning erections, because the testosterone I have is not being used for all the other things it’s needed for and goes straight to my penis, just the same as any other man, when he’s resting.

So what happens if they don’t produce that 50-70mgs per day? Do you really think they still wake up erect? Do they have sexually explicit dreams? Do they think about sex at all? So if an XXY man doesn’t want these terribly manly things what does he have to do? Cut his balls off! Not on your life he doesn’t, all he has to do is stop having the testosterone therapy. Making that personal choice might be quite difficult for some XXY men, when it all goes wrong who can they blame but themselves?

Now if these intersex types want to influence the medical profession to not treat them with hormones, of course they can feel free, they’re adults after all and it’s their health that’s at stake, nobody can be hurt but them. But for them to advocate that NOBODY with a DSD should be treated with hormones because of their not necessarily true accounts, is just plain nonsense. How can they possibly expect to have any influence in the health care of persons not related to them, not even in their circle of friends, based on their dubious accounts?

XXY boys deserve to be diagnosed early, before the onset of puberty, and ought to have the right to go through puberty just like any other males on the planet, and not be forced to develop possible psychiatric illness just because these intersex types have not got a clue what they’re talking about. If they want my continued support they’re going to have to tone down the text in their video. They’re going to have to accept that XXY boys forced to develop Klinefelter’s syndrome will not have a good opinion of their own most ugly body, as it’s counter intuitive for healthy males to look like that! Even their crackpot XXY colleagues don’t have that fat ugly body, BECAUSE they have testosterone therapy!

In my opinion.

Peer Pressure

So what do I say what Klinefelter’s syndrome is, read to the left, “Klinefelter’s syndrome is the symptoms of disease.”

Go that, understand? It’s not intersex, it’s SYMPTOMS of DISEASE.

What do I say XXY is? That might be harder to define, or XXY is XY with a Barr body. That covers everything.

Do you think I might argue with online discussion groups and supposedly information sites about the information they frequently have on both? You’d be correct if you do!

My latest argument ended in a semi-win. Effectively the site agreed they were misrepresenting what they have online about XXY and KS, but they won’t change it as, “all the other sites say the same.” So that’s the effect of Peer Pressure a feature of life I am immune to.

My peers, well who are they? Other ignorant XXY guys? Men who think they’re intersex? Parents of boys before puberty who think their son has Klinefelter’s syndrome? I reject all of you people as my peers. You’re not thinking reasonably, sensibly, logically, correctly. You’re up the proverbial creek without a paddle.

As I keep saying it’s not my idea to separate XXY and KS. For some it’s their idea to separate XXY from AD/HD. I agree, not all XXY’s have AD/HD, and almost no XXY’s look like the people Dr Klinefelter first described. Like I say to parents, regularly, “What’s the point in discovering these boys early if you, or their doctors, are going to insist they develop features of the syndrome that are avoidable?” Is AD/HD avoidable, I don’t think so. Being excessively tall is! Being obese is! Having no musculature is! Having no energy is!

When I was at the site I left messages of course, for the XXY guys who’d asked and got nothing back from anybody. So really I am the only enlightened educator out there on the internet telling the truth, a truth that few seem to be willing to accept. The child XXY sons are not diseased, and they may never be, provided they get proper health care.

A couple of times it was said I was known before I got there, I do make an impression.

The administrators of the site I was at admitting they won’t change because of ‘peer pressure,’ is as good as them admitting they are wrong.

Every little bit helps!

That’s all for now.

Graeme.
XXY – for life.

Autism Spectrum Disorder

When you’re important, and your child has been diagnosed with a ‘Mental Disorder’, you can get away with bloody anything!

My dad had Diplomatic status. Recently I found my mother’s old Diplomatic Passport. I’m not sure how she managed to keep that, I had mine taken off me as soon as we arrived back in New Zealand. I quite liked my red Diplomatic Passport.

Mum's Diplomatic Passport

I was misdiagnosed with Petit Mal Epilepsy when I was 4, about the same time my Aunt recalls a desperate conversation with my mother, who was calling her from London, England, where we lived. There was a problem about a head injury, mine. I wonder what that was all about? Did she think throwing me down a set of stairs could give me Petit Mal Epilepsy? Or did the exasperated woman throw her 4 year old son down a set of stairs, as a result of him having what was thought to be Petit Mal Epilepsy?

Graeme @ 4Gees I don’t know. I haven’t got a clue. What am I supposed to know?

Petit Mal Epilepsy has been renamed to Absences. The Brain turns off without warning, then turns on again without leaving the sufferer any clue that it was off for a time. Everybody knows, except the person with it. So people like that can literally be punched in the mouth, and bleed profusely, and not know it. When they do know it, well they know they’re sore and bleeding, they don’t know what they did to cause it. The Absence might be only a few seconds long, just long enough for others to notice, and do something!

What more can be said, other than, it wasn’t Petit Mal Epilepsy/Absences, it was and still is AD/HD Inattentive Type. If I had Petit Mal Epilepsy the drug I take to alleviate AD/HD Inattentive Type would make the seizures worse, maybe even give me Grand Mal Seizures?

It’s still a brain disease, a Mental Disorder, a good excuse to beat the crap out of a child with it, throw him down sets of stairs, and treat him really badly.

Children with Mental Disorders do weird things.

I knew a child with a Mental Disorder once and he’d just explode in a rage, for no apparent reason. He was absolutely crazy. Chairs would get smashed, desks would get smashed, windows were always a favourite to be smashed. Pens, pencils, crayons, and paper would fly everywhere. Tears would pour like that proverbial rain statement fancy writers like to use. He’d wet himself, that really got a good laugh. His body temperature would visibly rise, the onlooker could clearly see he had lost his mind, somewhere. Maybe he just forgot to pick it up when he left for school?

A calm would come over him, briefly. Then he’d be dragged off to the Principal’s for his well deserved hiding, which was always really painful, but nothing changed. Every now and then he’d fly into another rage, for no apparent reason.

Then there was the walk home/back. Other students would go to this child and abuse him. Say the meanest of things, trying to get him to ‘go off’ again. That was such fun. They would say ‘the teacher says you’ve got a Mental Problem’ and ‘we can see you’ve pissed yourself again!’ I could hear them really clearly from where I was, observing, silently. What they didn’t realise is that they were getting him to ‘go off’ again, it was just that he took so long to respond, by the time their efforts had their effect, they’d forgotten them.

When your mum & dad have Diplomatic status, they can get away with bloody anything, just like children at school do.

For parents with a child, who happens to have a ‘Mental Disorder,’ everybody knows the parents are just stressed to beyond the maximum, that any parent can be expected to endure. This child doesn’t notice you for long periods. This child is oblivious to your instructions and demands, but not always. Sometimes he seems quite normal, just like your other children. You think you’re making headway with him, you get tricked into believing he’s become normal, and is actually taking notice of you. He has an Autism Spectrum Disorder. Even when he is thinking right, he doesn’t know it!

Parents have to take the lead, they have to be encouraging, volunteer information, bolster confidence, display positive attitudes, exude self esteem! They have to be the PARENT! When one drug is clearly not working, get another one. When a style of parenting is failing, change it. Can it really be that hard?

My sister came to me a couple of years or so ago and asked “Graeme, I can’t make up my mind if it’s my imagination or if it really happened, but can you remember the day your blood was splattered all over the kitchen?”

“Well of course I can remember” I said, “You don’t forget that in a hurry.”

Stressed out parents do funny things, well maybe ‘funny’ is not the right word. When they’re important stressed out parents, and they do their ‘funny’ things, they get away with it, as everybody knows they also have a child with a Mental Problem. Anybody else would beat the crap out of that child too, as that is normal parenting behaviour. That’s why they spent so much time hiding it, as it was so normal.

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Eight year old’s can’t bleed that much, they can’t, they don’t have that much blood.

My advice is, ‘never believe an 8 year old who has a Mental Problem,’ 8 year old’s with Mental Problems that involve no short term memory are unreliable. Do not organise your day on the ability of an 8 year old with a Mental Problem to remember a conversation 6 hours before.

If you want your 8 year old at home at a specific time, write a note and put it in his pocket.
Write another note and put it in his lunch.
Call the school by phone and ask them to remind him to be home at a specific time.
If all that seems too much, drive to the damn school, pick ’em up, and take him home.
Do not rely on an 8 years old’s memory of this conversation:

“Don’t be late home today Graeme.” “No mum I won’t, I give you my word!”

I wish I’d never said those words. Actually I wish I wasn’t born. As I’m still here, take notice of my words, even 8 year old’s without a Mental Problem are unreliable.